Where to begin???
I had this whole post about Charleston and our girls weekend just about written. All it needed was some tweaking and a few pictures.....so why can't I post it?
Because although we had a wonderful time and Charleston is AMAZING!...... If you ever have the opportunity - GO!!!!! It's fabulous.
There remains the bombshell that my dear friend dropped on me before we even left the city limits!!!! And we had a five hour drive ahead of us. And a whole weekend.
I'm concerned. About her. About her family. About how much to reveal (even though she doesn't know I blog). About everything.
Major tip....if you are planning a weekend away with friends - wait to drop the bombshell, if you have one to drop. Why? Because it casts a pall over the weekend for the one you've told. Because no matter how much fun we were having . . . it was there. Hovering over my head the whole time.
So, I'll get to the trip. I promise. But right now I'm wrestling with the information I have. She asked me not to tell Hubby .... but seriously???? How could I not? And she had to have known that I couldn't keep this from him. That I couldn't deal with this craziness alone. I had to tell someone.
So I told him....and before it's all over I may tell you - because really? What's the point of this blog if I can't be truthful?
Hubby was as apalled as I was - and was much more forthright than I was when faced with this info. But....as I informed Hubby - I had a whole weekend to face with her.
What they say is true. You think you know someone; but then.....they prove you wrong.
Despite it all, I still love her dearly. But I have to wonder about her thought processes....and, in the true Gigi-fashion, can I fix this??