As most of you may remember, Man-Child will be living off campus in the coming school year.
While I AM happy to report that he was able to find housing and a roommate before I finished hyperventilating over the fact that he'd missed the housing deadline and before I had to step in to figure it out...I have to admit the whole thought of him living off campus gives me pause. Mainly because, even though he IS in college and is ALMOST twenty (hyperventilating again...HOW in the hell did THAT happen?!), it's that first HUGE step into adulthood...living on his own without a meal plan, etc.
And then? Then I looked up and it was already July (HOW in the hell did THAT happen?!) and realized...he will be going back to school in about a month...already (I'd add another "HOW in the hell did THAT happen?!" here - but that would be overkill. Right?) And then further realized, he is in no way, shape or form, armed to live off campus.
No. I'm not too concerned about the possibility of his starving. Although, I do believe his cooking skills might rival mine (although, to be fair, he has been having sporadic cooking lessons with his father. In the meantime, I have not. So he's probably further along than I am at this point). I am positive of the fact that he is perfectly capable of taking himself off to someplace that serves food.
No; today it dawned on me. Not living in a dorm = needing more stuff.
Yes, he has sheets and towels. He has a shower caddy. He has a microwave. He is perfectly outfitted for living in a dorm. What he doesn't have? Everything else.
I remember moving into my first apartment. I, literally, had nothing. No furniture. No kitchenware (not that I really needed any - and still don't, apparently). I had no inkling what went into setting up house. I bought what I needed as I went along - when I could afford it.
That is definitely not the start I want for my son. He has assured me he has a bed. But other than that? Nothing. And, to be honest, I'm not too sure about the whole bed thing. He says his roommate has a bunk bed set and will let him use the one he's not using. He also claims that he has some other furniture - but what, I'm not quite clear on.
So now I'm making lists and trying to remember what it was like to figure out what was necessary and what wasn't.
Plates. Silverware. Glasses. Pots. Pans. Vacuum cleaner, broom, mop, toilet brush (hahaha - like he'd actually USE any of it?). What else? Shower curtain. That one, I recall, DID surprise me. For some reason, it had never occurred to me that showers didn't come with shower curtains (or necessarily, rods). God, I was SO naive and clueless. Looking back, it's a miracle I've made it this far in life...
So today I took a drive out to Ikea to see what I could see. And discovered he needs EVERYTHING. Upon my return (with only two bath mats...which are intended for this household, I might add *small pat on the back for frugality*), I have instructed Man-Child to reach out to his roommate to find out EXACTLY what he will be bringing. I then told Man-Child that we need to take a trip up the mountain in the next couple of weeks for measuring, etc. And then we will be taking another trip to Ikea to round out his needs.
I have also determined that Ikea needs to be much closer than an hour and a half drive from my house. And upon second thought - maybe it IS a good thing that they are an hour and a half drive from my house.
So what say you? What am I forgetting?