tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8679304203742128093.post285638515501597673..comments2024-03-18T22:28:53.549-04:00Comments on <i>Gigi's Ramblings</i>: I stole this topic completely and totally....I admit that up front.Gigihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05467164195744234746noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8679304203742128093.post-10702840082761568632011-12-01T16:35:24.202-05:002011-12-01T16:35:24.202-05:00hmmm, its a good question.
I do not believe that s...hmmm, its a good question.<br />I do not believe that spouses should be connected at the hip. If we did EVERYTHING together, what would we possibly talk about, that the other didnt already know....but I do believe that there should be an element of friendship.... all the qualities we look for in our friends, should also be present in our spouses.Choleesahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11595335654681755401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8679304203742128093.post-25339020559184006282011-12-01T15:53:35.284-05:002011-12-01T15:53:35.284-05:00Ohhh good question. I don't do everything wit...Ohhh good question. I don't do everything with my Hubby but he is without a doubt my very best friend!Stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17218519474695662328noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8679304203742128093.post-45330553136069953922011-12-01T10:40:30.489-05:002011-12-01T10:40:30.489-05:00Don't ask me, I've been divorced so many t...Don't ask me, I've been divorced so many times I'm almost a Gabor sister!Carolhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16039261743881342348noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8679304203742128093.post-11350509352583330042011-12-01T09:10:34.349-05:002011-12-01T09:10:34.349-05:00My hubby is my best friend, and we live together a...My hubby is my best friend, and we live together and follow our own pursuits. None of this "joined at the hip" business for us, but we do enjoy being together some of the time. It's all about respect for the other's viewpoint and passions, I think. Good thought provoking topic.DJanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07152183871573797791noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8679304203742128093.post-62872767267588196502011-12-01T00:44:50.626-05:002011-12-01T00:44:50.626-05:00Oh, and there's nothing wrong with them having...Oh, and there's nothing wrong with them having separate interests and long as they are ultimately interested in each other, too.Ms. Ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06263882972749791087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8679304203742128093.post-42184349330029316042011-12-01T00:41:29.054-05:002011-12-01T00:41:29.054-05:00I, too, think it's a combination of both. Fri...I, too, think it's a combination of both. Friendship is very important to the relationship. Why would you marry someone you can't be friends with, in the first place. Throughout a marriage, there are stages. Early on, it's passionate and steamy. Then the kids come along and things can slow down, because there just isn't enough time and energy. Kids grow up and move out, now they have the time, but perhaps the drive has changed. That's when it darned important they have that good friendship to count on!Ms. Ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06263882972749791087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8679304203742128093.post-88112968412683063852011-11-30T21:08:45.439-05:002011-11-30T21:08:45.439-05:00I think a combination of both for me and Dirk. He ...I think a combination of both for me and Dirk. He is certainly one of my best friends though.Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02491795869831026753noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8679304203742128093.post-30690284521589193562011-11-30T20:17:40.351-05:002011-11-30T20:17:40.351-05:00I think it is a combination of both. You need to ...I think it is a combination of both. You need to be friends with your spouse in order to enjoy them. But at the same time having separate interests is healthy and actually good for the marriage too. <br /><br />How's that for diplomatic?Foursonshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07470306593323990269noreply@blogger.com